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Personal Narrative: Balance Not Battle

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Balance Not Battle

I was born in Chihuahua, Chihuahua, Mexico. Although you may assume that I possess a lot of traits of a stereotypical “Latina” I do not. I wasn't raised in a big family. It was just my parents, my younger brother, and me. I was raised by an engineer and an economist both of whom have always encouraged the idea of creativity, curiosity, and innovation. Traveling is big part of my life, and helped shape me at a very early age. Along with traveling came moving to the United States, which made it hard not to reflect on identity and heritage. To me the definition of one’s identity has become equal to embracing one’s heritage. For me, my journey began on my first day of the third grade. I was young, I didn’t question things and had no reason to. Every day I would pledge allegiance to the flag, but it wasn’t my flag. I remember the teacher telling us, “If you are not American, just stand respectfully. You don’t have to put your hand over your heart.” I thought about this. I shouldn't put my hand over my heart, aren’t I betraying my country? But at the same time, I have lived here for two years already, it was my home and wouldn’t that be betrayal? During middle …show more content…

NHI shined a light on my situation. In the program we were taught how to debate current issues, analyze how they affect our community, and develop solutions. The purpose of this organization is to unite Latinos and help them embrace their culture, but as they explain it, Latinos have become such a wide mixture of cultures, that sometimes we feel lost and are afraid to say, “Yes I am American, but I am also Latina.” I can merge my heritage together, the way I talk and think. I can sit down with my family to eat ‘tortilla con papa’ and then later sit with my dad and watch a football game. I learned I am not an outsider for combining my traditions, new and old. Rather by accepting everything I become a more complete

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